Well I know you are all wondering what my hair looks like.

I can't believe I am actually growing it... On the photo I have tucked the sides behind my ears... (habit I have) but if I pull it forward it's down towards my chin!!! I can't remember the last time I had hair that long!! ha ha ha.

I have changed the colour too... I have tried to revert back to my original colour (whatever that is.. it's been so long!) So I thought I would share this with you.

Yesterday I went to see my new accountant... he's from the old 'rock and roll' days, I love him. I love him even more now I have been to his office which over looks the ocean in Malibu. If I had his place, I would never get any work done. I'd watch the dolphins all day!

When I got home, I did some healing of one of my friends who is fighting cancer and I helped her mom with her battle with cancer so she came along for a quick session. It reminded me of my days when I was battling my cancer. I kept it VERY quiet not even my parents knew at the time. It was because of this that I found healing, and also I discovered "You can heal your life" by Louise Hay. It is such a remarkable book. Hopefully I will have the pleasure of meeting her on the Hay House cruise in April. I am working with Brian Weiss (Such an amazing guy!). I can't wait. He helps you discover your past lives and I first discovered him when I was introduced to him through my friend Anita. I read his 'Many lives Many masters' book. So if any of you have questions on past lives etc, this is the book I would start with. Just incredible!

So I am off to have a little retail therapy and spend some time with Lucy our dog. The boys have gone off to do Boy stuff so I'm off to do girlie stuff.

Have a great day!!!

Lisa xxx

Over the period of time I have been doing my work as a Medium I have realized you can't control other people's reactions. You protect your children, friends and loved ones, but to tell someone the truth hurts. Yet sometimes the truth needs to be said.

You need to have a voice, and you need to speak up for yourself and others. It's an amazing feeling when you speak up for yourself and are finally heard!

You cannot protect people all the time. You have to then realize the truth and then let them deal with it the way that they want to deal with it.

This is one of the reasons why I ask "do you want to know everything?" If spirit comes through with information, I cannot be the filter. It's not my job to decide if someone can or cannot deal with information. I trust the spirit coming through. I work on a need to know basis. If I get the information, then my client needs to know it and spirit knows that they can process it. If they say they don't want to know everything (and sometimes they do), I change the words so it's not so much of an impact on them.

Being able to tell people want you them to hear is so important. You need to get it through to them, otherwise you become frustrated and angry. Allow yourself to be heard, but never feel responsible for how someone takes the information you give them. We are all responsible for our own reactions.

This is something we have to remember. We cannot feel guilty, and it's important to realize this.

The reason why I am saying this is that I had a client today who felt incredibly guilty for the death of a loved one. He kept telling his loved one to be careful. Unfortunately his loved one took his own life. My client felt guilty. What could he do? He couldn't spend every waking moment with him protecting him. We all have our own life path and our own reasons for making decisions.

But the important thing to remember is that we can't please everyone. There is always someone we are going to upset. So be strong and realize this and find your voice. It's there, you just need to use it.

My thoughts are with all of you who are struggling. I've just had my healing hour, and I felt so much energy tugging away at me, I felt the whole world needed it... maybe it did!! :-)

I'm having my hair cut tomorrow. I cannot wait!! It looks like a Mop, as my mother would say. It's so thick it grows out, no wonder it's spiky. But I am going to change the color, I am fed up of the red, I think I might go back to my original color... If I can remember what that is. Ha ha ha!!!

Happy Friday tomorrow!!!

Lisa xxx

Well today Kev and I went to Beaumont to see the village where Kev will be helping out with the Childhelp charity, and I will be a special friend to someone.

It is so nice to see that this organization has a spiritual approach and teaches the children love. They have a sign above the doors that say "Those who enter here will find love", and that is true, who ever walks through those doors will find love.

Not romantic love but love from the heart. You don't have to be 'in love' with someone to love them. I love my friends, but I am no romantically in love with them. Loving someone is caring for them, understanding them, wanting them to be happy, appreciating them and what they bring to your life. Never be afraid to tell someone you love them. Never be afraid to tell someone you care for them.

You know being brought up in the English way, we are really reserved and to tell someone you love them is not the 'norm'. It's since I have been in USA that I have understood what it's like to be open and tell someone how you feel. With my friends now I am very open. I tell them I love them, and they tell me.

There is also someone whom I do not speak to in my family. Someone from whom I had to break away. It was a choice I had to make, to break away from a cycle. It doesn't mean I don't like that person, what it means is that I didn't need them in my life. But I still love them. I still care for them, and I would hate it if I heard that someone had caused them harm. So even though we do not speak to someone and have broken away from some one, it's still OK to love them.

Love is a very special emotion, and we may love one another, but do you love yourself? That is the most important emotion of all. You have to love yourself and accept that whatever decisions you have made in your life are the right decisions for you at the time.

You need to find the beauty within you and love YOU! Not about what you look like, because no one is ever satisfied with themself, but love the person you are inside! Take a look in the mirror today and look into your own eyes and say "I love myself" and mean it!!!

Have a great day!

Lisa xx