Today I had an interview with Cari from 'The Cari Stone show' she hosts a Paranormal Talk show. (http://www.myspace.com/caristone)I love being on her show, it was the 2nd time I have been on there and she was warm welcoming and just so much fun!!!

Towards the end of the 1 hour show, her friend came on the line who was investigating a 'haunted house' and she needed a little advice. Just before she came on the line , I started to get agitated and anxious and I moved from my bed (I tend to do radio interviews in the bedroom) to the sofa and I couldn't sit still.

When Resse came on the line, I started to do my usual pacing the floor and suddenly the room was freezing, so I instinctively knew my guides were around and that this was a something that needed very careful investigating. I must admit, if she had been local to me I would have put my coat and jumped in the car to join her...

I suddenly went in to 'witchywoo' mode (as I call it) and started to realize there was a little boy in the house who was gifted and it was because of him that the spirit was staying around. She needed to start there.

Some spirits are more difficult to move on and sometimes when I was filming LAD and the haunted house segment, I didn't feel I had long enough at a place, and I had to do a 'quick fix' but always helped after the show, and this would be one of the times I would have needed a few hours there.

She needed to find out why the spirit was attached to the little boy, she could only do this by communicating with the spirit or finding out if her guide could help her. She needed a strong protection around her. Once she had established why the spirit was there, then she could determine how to help the spirit cross. I could feel the energy of the spirit but I needed to be there, but I gave her some help. I think now that she knew the root of where it was coming from she could address the situation.

I have just heard that this 'demonic' spirit has effected a few people since talking to Cari tonight so I will get getting off here and working on it, and I will send healing out to others that need it.

Before you tackle anything like this you need a strong protection, something like imagining your self with a mirrored clock around you, so that what ever is being projected onto you, is reflected back to them, and it never touches you. Also surrounding yourself with white light is helpful here. Once you have established who the spirit is and what you can do to help them you have to coax them over to the light. You need to get your team of helpers around you and they will help you with this spirit.

Remember you are dealing with a personality. I often liken these stubborn spirits to a stubborn child who can't get their own way. You have to be smarter than them and what ever you do, you can not show fear, or get scared. They breed on fear and it just makes them stronger.

Once they have gone in to the light and they are welcomed you will then feel a shift in the energy and it will feel lighter.

It's important for you to sage the place totally, saging in the corners and every nook and cranny and also around yourself too. Make sure the windows and doors are shut when you do this. once you have done this you can open them again and you can imagine as you are opening the windows all the negative energy leaving the room and you need to imagine the love and light coming into the room.

Then you need to go outside and stamp your feet, jump up and down and basically ground yourself and imagine that all the energy that you have dealt with leaves you and flows out of your body into the ground. Flick it out of you. Imagine grass roots from your feet growing 6 feet under the ground.

Always thank your team of helpers too treat them with respect, just like you would treat anyone. They are, afterall, there to help you.

On a lighter note, we just came back from The Grove shopping mall, oooohh I am all Christmassy, we watched all the Christmas celebrations, the carol singers, the dancers, we walked by the huge tree, and we walked in the 'fake' snow that they showered us all with.... YAY!!! Then bathed Lucy lu our Shitzpoo... Oh fun getting all wet when she shakes herself, but at least she is now clean and yummy and snuggly!

Lucy all fluffy and snuggly after her bath

3 more days till Santa flies down that chimney, eats the cookies, drinks the Whiskey and leaves lots of toys and goodies.

Lots of Love

xxx

Ok so now I am getting REALLY excited... It's almost Christmas, you would think that I am the kid. I leave Charlie's presents in my office until Christmas eve and then I wrap them and pop them under the tree... it's one mad rush but I love it.

Anyway, today has been a time of reflection again and I think so many people do this over the holiday time. Some people withdraw, others go over board. we all deal with it in so many different ways. But what we must remember is that it's the giving that makes it so special. Not giving materialistically but giving love, peace and kindness. We an get so wrapped up in our own emotion that we don't stop to think about how it's effecting others and what we can do to help.

I have been reflecting upon a little boy Zimmy. It has been 3 years to the day that we met Zimmy. He a year younger that Charlie who we meet when we were in South Africa on our honeymoon. It was sheer fate how we met him and from that moment we fell in love with him. His father had died from AIDS, his mother was not in the right place in her life to look after him and he was found wandering the streets of the township with no shoes or food on several occasions. We met a lady called Melanie who worked in the church who helped the people of the township and we embraced Zimmy as our own. We couldn't adopt him but we decided to sponsor him. Having paid for the medical tests we discovered he was HIV positive and he had TB.

We took care of him and with the help of Melanie he was placed in a foster home and was surrounded with love. We kept in touch and last year we were given photos of little Zimmy, who is now a healthy big boy who has no cares in the world, he never thinks about where his next meal is coming from, he is just cared for and loved as every child should be.

We we also recently became involved with a charity that Merv supported, Childhelp. Kev and I were fortunate enough to meet the founders, Sara and Yvonne and these 'ladies' as they are fondly referred to have changed the lives of thousands of children all over the US. These are abused children who are taken in and given a specialized program to help give them a chance in life that we all truly deserve. I love the song the Greatest Love of All. "I believe the children are our future, teach them well and let them lead the way, show them all the love they possess in side" It's true. We need to nurture the children as they are the next generation and soon our lives will be in their hands. We will become special friends to a child in the new year and I will let you know what happens.

So it's been a day reflecting on Zimmy and Childhelp, and then we look at out own little boy, healthy and cheeky and I just know how blessed I am to have the miracle child I have.

"Santa Claus is coming to town!"

Hi all.

I have just read a few of the comments that you have left and I want to thank you for the words of encouragement. If it wasn't for you i wouldn't be here.

However, it sounds as though some of you are not aware, but Lifetime is not going to renewing the show for a 3rd Season. I discovered this last week. Yes of course it's disappointing, but as my Nan used to say. "One door closes another one opens!" And I believe that. I will be back on the TV but in the meantime I hope to keep in touch with you all through here, and give you all messages and also may be the odd web chat!!

There is a petition going around to keep the show going, and I know people are still signing it. I suppose it couldn't hurt if it was presented to Lifetime, if you wish to sign it then Click here

But I believe that them lot upstairs have a plan and that Lifetime was just a small part of the master plan!

With love

Lisa