Diplomacy!
One more signing to go and that is the UCLA signing tomorrow!!!
Tonight was amazing and as usual it's so nice to see so many people from this site there... It was just incredible!!!
Everyone from the members areas stayed at the end and chatted and I signed books and it was like a right little family community!! It was amazing just so nice.
And so many lovely gifts! One little boy, Brandon gave Charlie a gift too, Charlie was with our sitter as I know he has had too many late nights over the last week and needed to stay on a routine.
You know I meet all these lovely people but I never force my views on others. I can of course tell them my opinions and I do it in such a way that I am sensitive to their feelings, but I am always cautious.
Do you want to know everything, has become my line as I need permission from people to tell them everything. We have to understand that it's up to others to make their own decisions in life and live with that decision. We cannot influence it, not matter how much we want to tell them.
It's actually on of the hardest things to do, but we have to stand and support them and then if their decision is not the right one and they fall then we have to be there for them.
You can't always go around life saying "Well I told you so" as much as you want you, you have to be sympathetic to others feelings... It's hard and I tell you know I, as I have had to bite my tongue several times...
Knowing issues before they happen is one thing yet being diplomatic is another, we have to learn this and actually it's the hardest lesson I have had to learn.
Have a think about it and maybe we can all learn to be a little more diplomatic in our ways...
Happy weekend everyone!!
Lisa xx


Reader Comments (62)
- Lisa -
Wow! I actually get to be the first to comment! lol
I just wanted to say that I hope you have a great time at your last book signing. You are such a lovely person. You always are thinking about other people. That is something that many others don't think about.
Have a great weekend!!
Hugs!
Lol Jen!!
YAY this sounds like SUCH a beautiful night!!! How fantastic! Im jelous! Now tomorro GET ON THAT PLANE TO OZ!!! haha.. nah i GUESS u can have a rest *rolls eyes* =D jk
Aw i cant believe how fantastic the night would have been.. all you lucky people!!!
Aw im so jelous :D
I like this blog, thank u for writing. everything is always so right!!
I hope u had as much fun as i did listening to everyone talk about how good tonight was =D
WOO.
hehe, love u
Jayde xx
Hi Lisa,
It sounds like it's a very good experience, this tour of yours. It must be amazing, but also very tiring for you.
I can imagine how, every day, you are susprised, astonished, touched by the people you meet. It must be a hell of a job to take it all in. But I'm sure, being the professional that you are, you can give it a place.
Of course I am very jealous of all those people that get to meet you. Even more jealous of those who get a reading from you. I'm on the other side of the world, so it's not very easy to get to you, but if I do decide, EVER, to come your way, I must see you ! Without a doubt. Sure I have met clearvoyants or mediums before, but never did I feel they had such energy as you do.You don't put on a great show, or at least that's how I feel about it. Sure you have a lot of energy and that shows, but you leave behind all those things that people find over the top.... the candles, the strange clothes, the mystical flair. You're straightforward and a normal young woman, I'm sure that's what attracts so many of us to YOU in stead of to anyone else.
Anyway ... hope you 'll enjoy the last signing and then I hope you'll be heading for Belgium soon.
Take good care!
Hilde
Dear Lisa, I'm so happy for all your success, u deserve it, u are wonderfull (u made my life already a lot better and more fun)!! And of course u are right when u say: we NEED peoples permission always and YES I find it also soo hard to keep my mouth shut...Thank u for adding : we have to be there when they fall..thanks, I'll be more aware of that now!
Happy WE & read u soon on the blog.Big hug, marlies.
Hi lisa,
Congrats on the book and I hope you come to Michigan. I need some answers to certain questions I went to one of my friends who is a Psychic medium but she couldn't answer she said it was because I was blocking, and that it was only because she and I were to close, she never charges me.
also I give you permission to read anything you get off this post good bad or ugly, I am an empath, and reading your blogs and being on your website helps me a lot...I just need to know some things about my health...but I understand you are busy maybe you could refer me to someone that is as good as you are? thanks again andi
Andi
Hi Lisa,
Would love to meet you one day. Would love for you to come and visit Australia. Its a gorgeous place that i'm sure you would love. Your an incredible lady. I am anxiously awaiting the arrival of your new book, driving the bookshops down here crazy in fact. LOL. You are so down to earth and real. Watched your show on W down here in Australia and loved it and looking forward to the next series to start. I do healing myself, Quantum BioEnergetics and Reiki and just watching you on the tv can feel the energy you give off. Anyway enough from me have a fantastic weekend!
Love and gratitude,
Vicki
Love your show and website, but am confused as to how to possibly gain help in reaching a loved one. His Mother is beside herself, trying deperately to make some contact. His name is Charles Barnes Hewitt from RIchmond, VA, his Mother is Ellen Hewitt in Richmond VA, I was Charles' first love, Michelle 'Shell', he also died with a girl named Michelle, in a house fire. Just seeking guidance in his afterlife, I dream, but his Mother hasn't and it is hard for her.
Lisa,
PLEASE come to OHIO eventually! Preferably CLEVELAND, but anywhere in OHIO will do, really...I will definitely make the drive :) I think the closest you are coming is Milwaukee, WI, and unfortunately I can't get there in time.
Please keep helping us all in every way that you do; you're great.
~Nicole~
Lisa !
Your blog today about diplomacy is so you.
It's another quality that I think you possess that shines through combined with your warmth, positivness and personal touch.
It is hard when I see friends, family or workmates on the same road I've been down.
Then I wanna take all my experiences and give it to them, but everyone has to walk their own path, I try to be beside them instead of ahead telling them what to do.
Lotta love and light from Lotta
I will hide in Lisa's suitcase and come to OZ to see you too Jaydey!! :D :D :D
The kids were so adorable at the signing today!! Kev was a star with his patience! Lisa was a star too, but what's new!? Everyone in the audience/group was SO friendly, sweet, and lovable there!
The vibe was great, lovely, and relaxed. I really enjoyed that. :) Lisa's friend in front of us was also so sweet with such a cute personality! (Plus, I loved her accent and voice!)
Thanks to those who worked the event, as well! They were all very sweet! (Waiting for you to join, Hope! ;)
Ok, I think that's my two cents.. it's a tad late, and I have to get up at an hour that is not humane in my opinion, so that's all I got in me... :)
I will try to make it out tomorrow.. if not, then Sunday certainly! See you when I see you!
Much Love,
Vy :)
<3
I agree with Vicky in that we would love for you to come out to our beautiful country, Australia! It would be wonderful to meet you for sure and to be at one of your shows would be fantastic.
I here what you are saying about stepping back and letting others make their own mistakes but always being there for them, to pick up the pieces. This we have had to do with our teenage/adult children and it is one of the most difficult things to watch and go through with them.....
Glad you had such a great night with your signing and spending time with the members!
Sharon
Hi there Lisa and all!
Have a fab time tomorrow everyone~! ...I will not be there physically but will attempt astral projection...or maybe I will pull out my magic carpet or my special traveling witchy broom...or maybe I will just be there in spirit...(Lisa, not the otherside kind of spirit...LOL)
Another great blog and lesson...you always manage to keep me on my toes (my toes are starting to hurt..ouch, ha,ha) This was a hard learned lesson for me as well. Although I lead with my heart, my foot sometimes gets caught in my mouth. I am sorting out the foot business and learning to be more diplomatic...LOL. being right about something is not important to me as much as helping the other person... but it is always important to know how and when to deliver a message. Sometimes it is just not the right time...not the right place... not the right life. It is hard when you know something that may improve the quality of anothers life but have to stuff it because they are not ready to hear it. So thanks for another great lesson.
Be well and sending you hugs,
Laura N. XXO
Hey Lisa =)
I just wanted to leave a message. I think you're amazing. You have an incredible personality, and I absolutely LOVE your hair ;)
Would love it if you managed to come to Norway sometime, or anywhere near Norway =) I know so many people that would want to meet you. I'd love to meet you myself as well!
Anyway, I hope you're okay and feeling well, Lisa =)
Best thoughts, best wishes,
for you and your loved ones.
Love from Merete L.
well we have now had 151 measurable earthquakes in less than 24 houra. each one seems to be getting stronger, this one knocked things of shelves and opened doors, even cracked a few windows, I thought once I left earth quack land Ca) I wouldn't experience so many, but this last one was a 4.6!! mother earth is now yelling at us all, hope you there in Ca aren't having as many bad ones an we are, but OMG 151 quackes in less than 24 hours is really trying to send some kind of message!!
Lisa,
Sounds like you had a fabulous day! I love your blog. I can't wait to read more. Have a beautiful Pink Day!
Oh and by the way, I MISS your show.....
Stephanie
Lisa, I'm looking forward to reading your new book!
I hope one day you can make your way to Louisville, KY!
All The Best!
Kevin Talley
www.KevinTalleyFitness.com
Hi Lisa!
I am afraid diplomacy is a rare commodity in current times (I guess that does make me sound hideously old!). But the group on your website is full of nurturing individuals and because of that it is a beautiful haven for those of us who are battered and beaten by life's daily trials. Also, the people who come to your book signings and events are also going to exude that same warmth, which is really so very nurturing and encouraging. Too bad everyone can't have an equally nice working environment; if so I think people would have much happpier lives. Our co-workers and bosses (and familes) could do us a world of good by just giving out a few little words of encouragement and praise, so that we can feel we are appreciated for what we do. It takes so little to do so much! (cliche, but true!).
Thank you Lisa for your sweetness, love and concern for so many; you are such a beautiful soul!
Lisa, thank you so much for this post. There are times I come on here and it seems like you are writing directly to me. Everything is so personal. I think no matter if you are grieving or feeling emotional disaster in some form or another, coming to this website can help. Any situation is addressed with prayer and thought. Good luck with your Sunday show, I'm so happy for those members that got to meet you. Keep up your wonderful work.
With Light and Love,
Cher
Lisa,
Thank you from the bottom of my heart...........
always to help, never to harm
peg
Lisa - My wife and I just attended your book signing in Oak Brook, IL. We bought the book that night and have finished it already. It was a GREAT read!
When my wife and I came up to get our HUG and our book signed I mentioned to you that I was so appreciative and glad that you gave a positive answer when you were asked to comment on the situation in the world. All too often we hear "gloom and doom" assessments, which to me, are ill advised and not constructive. I remember the part in your book when you discussed your prediction of the Tsunami so I know that if "the news was bad" you would have handled the question differently. However, like I mentioned to you, even with all the "stuff" going on right now in the world I do believe we are "getting better" as a species, so your response was validating and refreshing. Thank you!
My wife and I hope to make it to your appearance in Milwaukee in May.
Best regards,
John and Robin
Lisa,
What a inspiration you are, I enjoying reading your blog and the wisdom you give. I'm looking foward to seeing you in Springfield, MA, the tickets were my birthday present from my husband! :-)
Have a wonderful weekend,
Anne
Lisa, so true so true. One of the hardest lessons I'm trying to incorporate into my daily life is to stop and think, rather than just speaking and sharing whatever my thoughts and opinions are on the subject at hand. Your blog is a great lesson to all of us.
Less than 2 weeks til you'll be in Rochester! I can't wait!!!
Megan
Lisa Lisa Lisa-
See there, people from Michigan and Ohio are dying to meet you!!!! hint.....
Well, Toledo is right in between the two. ha ha...
Just a thought
xx
Love your posts and wish you the best of the best! I know the difficult life you lead (professional psychic medium and empath here too!). Anytime you need someone to commiserate with, feel free to look me up :)
Sending you hugs and lovely thoughts!
Kristy Robinett
Dearest Lisa,
well hon, by your blog here, it seems as though some one[s] was possibly giving you a hard time with possibly 'their views'. We all know everybody has their own oppinions & belief systems that I would hope, we use in a positive way. But,If someone harrased you in some way, it is obvious that they can not see beyond their own nose, and maybe they just like to stir up commotion with others as this would be 'who they are' in this life - I myself am Christian, & there were ALOT of Christians at that book signing in Texas... Maybe we are a different way of 'Christians' - as I have no reason not to believe that you were given a special gift and you must be quite a strong woman to have been able to accept what I believe the Lord has given to you for your paticular journey in life. and so as you say Lisa 'do you want to know everything', I would say, yes, I want to know whatever you have been blessed with to share with others, and then, I would say, God Bless you Lisa with love, you are a beautiful miracle [as I believe each of us are] to others in this life of continuious lessons to be learned...
God Bless you sweetie xx!!