Support!
Well I am getting there, I did over 10 miles on a real bike, and yes you guessed it, my bum is sore!! But I did it... I couldn't go out the other day as it was so wet and windy and this was the first chance I had. I'm going out again tomorrow... I have my ipod full and the morning free so I will be a happy camper on my bike riding by the ocean! ohh I can't wait!
Well today I had a little man who was rather emotional. Charlie is going into hospital to have his tonsils out. He already has had his adenoids out but the Dr thinks that some have been left in so he is going to investigate. I had this op when I was 5 and I loved eating the ice cream so when I told Charlie this today his little face lit up, just as any 7 year old's would when then know that they can eat as much ice cream as they like!
I came home and I had to do a reading and then he wanted to go out, to Johnny Rockets... he loves that place. I had dinner plans so I didn't eat. I wished I had because when it came to the time I was leaving the house, Charlie put his shoes on and said, "I'm coming with you!" Oh he did make me laugh... and he said, "Don't laugh mommy I am!" So I had to explain that it was a girlie night with my friend, but he was not having any of it. he flung himself on the floor and grabbed on to my leg and said, I'm coming with you. Its often a game we play. Charlie hanging on to our legs and we pull him along the wooden floor, he loves it. But this time he meant it!! I was not going anywhere, from the tears I saw when I asked him to get up as I was already late.
I couldn't leave him, so I called my friend who would do anything for 'Mister Charlie' as she calls him and she totally understood and we had an evening of watching Spongebob Squarepants and playing. It was so much fun... he went to bed as good as gold and fell straight to sleep... bless him.
We all have those emotional days. I know I do, and I don't have any hormones to blame it on. Some of us have more than others, but what we need is comfort. Of course we have to stay positive and know that tomorrow is another day and that we will be stronger. But live for the moment and if you need to be emotional, be emotional. ask for help, ask for comfort and ask for love.
There is nothing wrong in it. You are not weak, you are strong because you know what you want and need and you are asking for it. Not everyone can do that. Once we learn to do that then there is so much we can accomplish. knowing that we have our support network around us is a safety net it's so important.
I have mine and judging from the posts yesterday, two of them were talking about me and plotting... but I know that they are only doing it in my best interest. Janey she is like my sister and Sam, is the girl that I grew up with and is mentioned in the book. She is still a very good friend. They are plotting... hmmm remember girls I am psychic!!!
So having a support network is important, ask for help, don't suffer in silence, you are worth more than that. And when you do ask for help you will be surprised how many people will just coming running to help you...
Right need to get some sleep I'm up too late again... I have a cough and it's keeping me up!
Happy Thursday... nearly Friday!
xxx
Lisa Williams
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LISA-
I HAVE TO TELL YOU FROM MY HEART HOW AWFULLY KIND AND HUMBLE A PERSON I FEEL YOU ARE TO BE COMMUNICATING WITH US ALL THE WAY YOU DO. YOU ARE A VERY POPULAR PERSON, EVEN CONSIDERED A STAR BECAUSE OF YOUR TELEVISION SHOW. I HAVE HAD READINGS WITH MORE THAN A COUPLE OF WELL KNOWN MEDIUMS BOTH FROM AMERICA AND ENGLAND AND BELIEVE ME I DON'T KNOW OF ANY OTHER WHO WOULD CARE TO TAKE THE TIME THAT YOU DO FOR THE PEOPLE THAT ADMIRE YOU.
I AM TOUCHED BY YOU. YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL.
LOVE, CECELIA
With you Cecelia =]
Bless your little boy.
You and Kev are GREAT parents. Your a wonderful mum!!!
Thank you for sharing your PERFECT words once again.
"So having a support network is important, ask for help, don't suffer in silence, you are worth more than that. And when you do ask for help you will be surprised how many people will just coming running to help you..."
Iv learnt this from YOUR website. So THANK YOU!!!
Have fun tomorro and i hope you start to feel better!!!!!!!!!!
Lots and Lots of love to you.
xox
thank you that means so much. I have a huge job to do and I can't do it alone I need helpers if the world is going to heal. Your all helping in your way.
So lovely again....mmmmm Wish you the very best Lisa. It is funny but when I think of you I see you standing in front of me but all I can see is your back. And then I'm jumping saying coocoo here I am! You will be feeling so proud after sunday, sorry i can not donate but will bless you with a big pack off stardust...all the best for you
First of all.. all I could think of in my head was, how do you keep this up EVERY night for us?? This has GOT to be exhausting.. please remember, as much as everyone here thoroughly loves your blogs and looks forward to it every night/morning, we would understand if you needed a breather any day too!
Course the members can't take a break, because one day away from the message boards and you miss a bagillion fascinating topics!! ha ha..
You know, if I were you.. I wouldn't be able to resist little Charlie's adorable face either!
And your friends seem funny.. and fun! Oh to plot and scheme... that is absolutely me. ha ha.. but having a psychic friend would definitely be a disadvantage in plotting! I'm sure they are clever enough to get around it... send mixed signals!!... lol.. I don't know.. lol
For tonight's blog... *jotting down reminders to self in head* asking for help = ok = not weak.. no suffering in silence.. hmm.. that will take some getting used to... and YES! VERY surprised at how many will help! *Gobsmacked!* ;P
Alright beddy bye for real this time for me... Hope your cough goes away soon so you will be in tip-top health (aside from your already sore bum/booty/ba-donka-donk.. whatever tickles your fancy) for Sunday!
Enjoy the sun tomorrow!.. I should start dusting off my bike.. :P
<3 <3,
Vy
P.S. I second.. third.. or whatever number I am.. Cecelia's comment! :) :)
AAAAH! They stopped with sending your show out on tv!! I'm not happy about it!! It will come back will it? Yesterday, something strange happened again. The clock was acting weird, Joeri (my love) saw it also. I was laughing with it, he didn't understand. Sometimes someone is hiding our things, that's something to stress about. Especially when you need it right away, you'll find it in a couple days after. On the same place you looked 20 times. Did you ever talked to a spirit called Emma? She contacted me couple years ago. She was about 16 when she died and lived between 1920-1945. She made me feel what happened to her. That scared me so that I didn't wanne have anything to do with it anymore. She choked me and then took the feeling in my leggs away. I passed out and didn't know what happened. But my love was there in full panic and he sayd that I was rolling my eyes but he could only see the white part. A week later we meet someone who knew what happened without us saying anything. She wanted to help and together we guided Emma to the light. I was left behind with a gigantic cut in my bum and some scratches on my shoulders. If you see her, tell her that I've put the pieces of her puzzle together and that I understand now. And please look if she's happy and finally found true love. It was a tragic story. I just hope we did the right thing. Allmost weekend!!! My thoughts are with you sunday! But if you can't finish, we'll still be proud of you! We'll be cheering from all over the world!! Go Lisa Go Lisa!! Have fun and bless your bum for sunday! Love, Goia
You are so right as ever sweetheart! As for Charlie, I don't want to upset either of you but it's not ice cream anymore it's cornflakes! I had my tonsils out just before our wedding and they make you eat sharp things now to loosen any unwanted tissue. Hope it's different over there! When does he go in? Poor little lamb. Sending lots of love and cuddles and a special one for Charlie, I had no idea it was so imminent xx
You do have the sweetest little boy dont' you, He reminds me of my Belle she is 5 and does the same thing. I think I am going out by myself and there she is at the door or window yelling no dont' leave I am coming with you.
Not many parents I think would have done what you did, you are a good momma Lisa.
Thats great you did 10 miles oh my goodness, fabulous!!!
take care of your cough and
Happy day
deezie
Hi and Good Morning Lisa, I used to ride my bike 10 miles every night and I know the feeling, its such good exercise, thats how i lost wight after each pregnancy and it worked wonders. Heres to hoping you let Little Charlie know each and everyday how very very special he is to you and that you love him soo--He looks like such a charmer, and you seem to be a wonderful mommy. Love To You Lisa--
Support what would we do without it, the support and Love that has been shown to me here can never be matched!! As you sadon the message last night a message could well be for more than one person, though it makes my Heart hurt more to think that someone else is going though the exact thing as I and the same excrusiating pain as I have been enduring since my son left. To all who have Lost a child I am soo very Sorry for Your Loss ad I know your pain. When you don't get answers it only amplifies the pain.
Lisa I Love You and all your followers of the Heart and Love and Healing that have gathered here!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh Lisa Lisa!
I got your newsletter with my emails today and you are a Gemini just like me mum! I thought you might be a Pisces and I don't know why.
Thanks for the insight. Gemini is an air sign, communicator. You would need to be that with all the communicating you do (spiritually, etc.) Now- if I could only figure out what your life path number is I'd be happy! Mine is 7 - spiritual.
I'm sending you a spiritual embrace and prayer to get you through your bike ride.
Sounds like Charlie wants mum as close to him as she can be before hospital time.
Peace and love-
Cecelia
Hey Lisa
You are a good mother! I love that you share your personal life with us.
Take care of that cough. We don't want you sick the day of the race.
thanks
diana
VY and Cece...I'm joining the hip-hip hooray bandwagon for Lisa.
It's AMAZING how she has made herself "touchable" for us all. I love that Lisa doesnt just hover, she comes down and gets her feet wet - she is a true star!!!!
Yea, rest when u need to Lisa, we'll all still be here when your're ready to "bring it on"!
lol
Sunday,
Thank-you so much. Yes, I've lost a son as well so many more during that particular time including my mom. It was like an explosion of deaths of 6 or 7 people, practically everyone I happened to have had in my life for years, including my best girlfriend of 28 years.
Thank-you Thank-you for your message and kindness!
I'm hugging you now- can you feel it?
Cecelia
I really miss your show so I love getting the newsletters. Hope you will consider travel to the Ohio / Michigan area sometime! Take care!
I'm having a sign made--GOD BLESS LISA'S BUM FOR SUNDAY!!!
Thank-you Goia.
Hello,
I am a newbie with blogs and postings. I read your blog this morning and I felt that I had to respond. I have a 6 years old little man and reading your story this morning made my heart pull. I am a single mother so I am with my son all the time. Unfortunately I have to work full time to support our family and this means dropping him off to school for breakfast. Even though we spend almost every moment together he wants to sit with me and have breakfast. It breaks my heart to tell him that I can't because I have to go to work. I have been able to adjust my schedule slightly and come into work late twice a month so that we can have that special breakfast time. In fact the last time we were together for breakfast my son Isiah gave me a special treat. He looked at me and said "my grandpa loves me" I asked him how you know that. He said "because he told me and he said to say that I love you both". This is a special surprise to me because my father passed away almost 10 years ago. He was never able to meet my son in this life. They have always had a bond that just amazes me. This is not the first time that Isiah has relayed a message from grandpa. It makes my heart happy to know that my Dad is with us always.
Thank you for "listening"
it is so funny you wrote this .. the last two days i have been "shut down" ..tuesday more than wednesday.. but yesterday i had considered posting a subject on shutting down, then decided not too... when i get upset.. i mean really down...i shut myself off.. I told Glenn (as we IM everyday) "PLease dont take it personally i dont want to really talk tonight, it isnt you it's work"
He udnerstood and we sat quietly on the computers... only saying things every once and again just to know the other is there
The little things i whine, complain and talk about, but when the poo really hits.... i just tuck myself away..i still function in a what i need to do, but beyond that..i seek solitude and close myself off...
Charlie is a sweeti.. i miss that age.... i cater to my boys hearts as well... nothing feels better than taking tears and turning them into smiles and hugs... now i have a granddaughter that once the kids get back from Iraq, i can turn her tears as well... cant wait!!
well.. i am off.. you have a great day everyone.. take care
{{{hugs}}}
Charlie,
Things will be ok, my son had to have a couple of surgeries like this when he was your age and both times I wondered if they really did anything by the way he was acting. The one time he did have a little sore throat so he just had to have popcicles. This sore throat went on for almost a week and I suspect he was fibbing about just to get them.
Lisa,
As I've written before, you are this divine tuning fork, helping us all raise our vibrations. And more than that, Dearest, I believe you are a Bodhisattva: which you know in Buddhist culture is a person well along the path to enlightenment, and who is using her life to help others enlighten. Bless you, Lisa, for you are only just starting your huge work and I see many more wonderful years for you.
Now, I'll be matronly and clucky and tell you not to over train, and to really, really support your body for the next few days until the race. Pad your bum! Lay in a supply of Tiger Balm (I couldn't live without that stuff!) Stay hydrated! Stay flexed! Stay focused! I have put in my two bits to your fund, and will be alert to news of the event Sunday morning! You do it! Tassels and crystals and all!
And thank you - I've been doing crystal meditations nightly since receiving your crystals, and there is a HUGE change, a positive one. Again, many, many thanks.
Hi Lisa,
Thank you so much for your newsletter, I feel I now know why I felt so lonely last month when the phone didn’t ring as much or I hadn’t heard from friends in a while…Thank goodness Mercury is no longer in Retrograde! Does this mean our love ones may have had a harder time getting messages to us as well? For the last month I didn’t feel I had many of those weird unexplained happenings/signs as in the past and my dreams didn’t include any past love ones in them as well. But as the week began…everything is back on track once again. The bear is playing music and the lights are flashing on and off once again, and I got a “Hello” 3x in my dream last night.
Good luck with your bike ride Lisa…you have much more energy than I do. Helping raise funds for abused children is a wonderful act of kindness as well as you sharing your gift with us all…I would be pleased to help you reach your goal. Give your son Charlie and big old hug and let him know that he’s your world. May God bless you and Charlie and may he give you both the strength you need for your ride and his operation.
Take Care,
Suzanne
P.S. I’m with Laura…when are you coming to Michigan? I miss your show as well!
Hi Lisa,
I think you are absolutely amazing! I've never written to you before and am a bit nervous. There is no one in the world I would love to meet more than you. You look like the coolest person to just hang out with.
I still get to watch you on Liftime RealWomen TV even though it's repeats.
Best wishes to Charlie on getting his tonsils out. Ice cream sounds good to me too!!
And I hope your cough gets better and you are feeling better soon.
With much love,
Michelle
ok,finally back, and Vy I will make sure to start being active on the message boards...havent really gotten time to read them yet...ive been wanting to but the days go by so quickly...sometimes i wish there were more hours in a day...
and Lisa, you are a wonderful mother! thank ou for you reminder of support and to trust your gut! i get reminded every single day of these things but sometimes it is hard to ask for support as sometimes I felt unworthy because of the way I was raised, I say felt though, because these last couple of months i have done soooooooooooooo much work around honoring my 'little boy' and letting go of those old mis-teachings and attachments and its amazing, I have see my entire life do a 180 and doors fling open because of his work, r maybe they were already open, i just didnt feel worthy enough to recognize them as opportunities for me...its funny, i think about all of the conversations ive had with people and even the reaidngs ive done and how with all of that accuracy i found and still find ways to doubt myself when it comes to me and knowing and trusting the answers that im given...its so amazing how when we trust, the floodgates truly open and light is showered onto us and into our lives! thnak you for reminding me Lisa!
im glad to hear everything is back on track for you Suzanne! good for you!
sunday, bless you for keeping forward movement! i cant imaine what its like to lose a son, especialy as a mother, so i send many blessed thoughts and support ;-) your way!
Cecilia, i agree with you 30000000000000%! and yes, i felt your hug..! :-D thanks for the boost!
oh and one more thing Vy, remember, youa re LOVED! and you are deserving of ALL of the love that is in the Universe for you and trust me, its infinite!
peace, love and support everybody
Rob
That really hit home. I have been somewhat emontional the last few days as the Liver Transplant case worker Doctors told me to start finding a live donor. I am not someone that will say can you go get tested.... So I put it in an e-mail form that if they feel it in there heart to help me please contact the cordinator. I was hurt that my own brother and sister have not even stepped out to say what would you like me to do? So like you said I have been carrying this load with me.I called my parents last night to see if anyone called them to ask questions and my father (you would all just love him) said my Cousin David is going to call to see what he can do. I am in awe that he stood up to say I will help save your life!
As for Charlie....Kisses to you little man. I wish I could eat Ice Cream all day, but cant do that anymore...Jodi exspands....I love you all
Jodi Bukowski
Jodi i have been praying for you to receive your help and sending positive energy. I hope it helps and I hope it works. I'm praying you go to the head of the class so to speak for your liver transplant.
Love and Healing Energy To You
Love Sunday
I applaud you for staying home with Charlie...as I was reading it I was thinking he needed you so much for one reason or another. Your awesome Lisa and good luck with Charlie's surgery. What a great Mother you are :)