Soul Connections
Tuesday, September 1, 2009 at 10:48PM I have been holding on to this blog for a little while and what inspired me was a lunch that I shared with a very special soul last week...
We were talking about how it doesn't matter who you have in your life, those that matter are soul connected to you. How many times have you met someone and felt that you have known them all your life. The reason is, is that you are soul connected. You have been together in another life, you have helped each other out, or you made a pact before you came to the earth plane that you were going to be in each others lives to help each other.
I am sure you will all agree with me when I talk about this... there is something magical in that connection. Whether it's a relationship with someone you wasn't expecting or a friendship that others couldn't understand, or just someone you felt the need to help and once that help had been recieved then your work had been done and you were able to move on.
I think if we are honest with ourselves we have all had that even the skeptics out there. I know my father has had it and cannot understand the meaning for it. But I believe that people are meant to be in your life for a reason. We all have karma that we need to balance for whatever the reason is.
We never know what the reason is until after the fact normally and there is nothing wrong in that, it's all part of the learning curve and wouldn't life be boring if we knew every single step that we were to take.... where is the fun in that!??!
Everyone has a soul connection with someone, you may not be with your soul mate, but that is not a problem because we often find that our soul mate is not on this earth plane anyway, they are often guiding us through life, but we are connected to our lovers and friends through a soul connection.
I know someone who said that he wasn't gay, in fact when I met him he was in a strong relationship with a girl, however over time he fell in love with another man's soul... they were soul connected and even though he had an internal battle with his feelings, he ended up leaving his girlfriend for his now husband of 5 years. His girlfriend totally understood his dilema and could see his battle. She loved him enough to set him free. He will still tell you he is not gay, as it's a label that people wear.
So it doesn't matter who you are soul connected with, whether its friends, family or relationships, what you have to know is that we are all the same and we all have those who are there for us. Never feel shy to reach out to those who are one with us, there are there to help us and we are there to help them... It's a union of love in many ways
With love
Lisa xx
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Lisa~Thank you so much for this beautiful blog. I absolutely loved it and clearly get it. I am a military wife and through out the years have made numerous moves to new bases, meeting new people and making new friends, and watching friends move on to their next destinations and have said many good-byes. Always vowing to stay in touch and write or call...and we always did for a awhile. Then of course gradually with most of them things change and letters and calls were less frequent...no fault of anyone. Just life and time gets in the way...BUT...with that said, although I have had the blessed opportunity over these years to make so many new friends from so many different place, I have also made those very friends you describe...the ones that just "click" instantaneously as if we had already known each other before...and there are some who I remain very close to some 15 years later. We can still pick up the phone or have that random opportunity for a visit and its as if time and distance never got in the way. :-) I realize in reading your blog that even these very blessed friendships--whether still intact or gradually fading out were indeed soul mate type friendships. I love your beautiful blogs--Keep them coming!!!
Love and Peace to you and your family and safe travels.
Chris
PS...I had the privelage of attending your show in Spokane, Wa in early August and loved it!!!
Lisa this is so true.
I feel strongly that people come into our lives for a reason.
And that they leave for the same.
I have come across a few soul mates that i felt I had known all my life.
They helped me to deal with a problem
When the problem was solved, they left.
When I met my husband, I felt I had known him all my life
He is now my soul partner, my best friend.
Some how I feel that we were brother and sister in another life.
We are like a set of twins, that can read each others mind.
Thank you for this blog
It was very interesting
Hugs
Chrisje
Hey Lisa!!
Gosh I can so relate to this!! Yes I know exactly what you mean!! I myself experience this knowingness with complete strangers from time to time. You just feel like you know them even when you have never met before in this lifetime. It's obviously got to do with past lives. Sometimes the meeting is brief sometimes longer. Or you can even end up marrying someone whom you have this connection with. You are right, its all full of purpose and pre planned in the heavens. The journey of Life!! :) Well its time for me to go!! Im starving!! Gotta cook my din's!! Thanks for the blog Lisa!! Take care!! See you in Auckland, New zealand Soon!! can't wait!! Byeeee Marcel :)
This really spoke to me, I am bad at keeping in touch with friends but those who I am truly connected with know and understand (and are a bit the same way) but I know and I hope they do that if something happened they would be there, just as I would be for them.
I had my cards read recently and sister energy kept coming through - it wasn't my biological sister but my best friend who lives over the road from me, we have been through a lot which should have split our friendship forever but she is probably more special to me despite and possibly because of that.
I look forward to your Perth show and hope for a reading, I have started communicating with my father already to let him know I want him to come through - you never know your luck.
I believe in this 100%. Sometimes I don't even know why I click with someone but that relationship is there for a reason & it is so nice when you meet people you just connect with. Keep up the fantastic work. Can't wait to meet you again in Melbourne. You are a wonderful soul.
One of my closest friends is a lady by the name of Jane and she is 62 and l am 34. Jane is from England and we met 2 years ago . What can l say, when you make that connection age plays no part what so ever. l met Jane when l started doing the self-healing classes and meditation. Jane was the teacher. For me the meeting of the eyes is the moment of truth and also a knowingness of the person. Amazing. Jane will be at your Melbourne show with me and she is very excited,even though she is playing it cool.Let's say it's a knowingness. Hugs Rach xoxo
Lisa Thank you~ this is lovely and so true! It's just what I needed to be reminded of today! It also reminds of persons I just met for the first time yet they seemed as familiar as my dearest friends. My ex hubby and I had that same instant connection when we first met. In time we grew apart, but I know that our time together taught me so much about so many things, including myself. It was part of a plan for sure.
Sometimes it's easy to forget that the people in our lives are here for a reason, and that, as my spirit guide has said "it's all good"
Thank you again for this and all your lovely writings !
Hugs and Blessings
Rebecca
Its funny that you have posted this. My husband and I were just talking about this last weekend. I said to him, why is it that certain people always hang around me? I can remember when I was at school there were a lot of children that just used to cling to me, they were from a childrens home. My husband said, you know what it is, you are feeding them, they need to be fed with some positive energy. I never really looked at it that way. I have to say though, being a higly sensitive person I do have to watch my energy, so that I do not become drained.
Lisa, as always, you speak with your heart and soul...I could write heaps regarding soul connections, but i promise i won't drag on about it..lol....So, let's just say Ditto, to everything you wrote..I also believe in my heart i have soul connections with both men and women..I never expect it, it just happens..And thank heavens i'm not the type to deny my feelings..I am not afraid at all, to show my love for other women friends of mine, i'm connected to.Likewise for them...I don't like the label "Straight" but that's what i am..Doesn't mean i can't love my girlfriends, or have that special connection with them!..I don't want to "sleep" with them, i just love them, deeply...They feel like a part of me..Just as some men do.....Love Stace.S XXX
Hi Lisa ..
Beautiful blog today ..
Your words today will help so
many people ..
Jätte kram ( huge hug )
Lisa,
I know what you mean about meeting people and being able to talk and relate to them and feeling like you've known each other for awhile.
I have to say sometimes I feel that way but it seems like the OTHER person isn't as interested in developing the relationship as I am. I get frustrated and wonder why I'm suppose to meet these people if they are not interested in developing a relationship/friendship with me. It seems like there is no purpose and it just hurts me because they stay in my mind and i wonder if a) there's something wrong with me or b) maybe my feelings are just haywire!
Enjoyed reading your recent posts!
Thanks BFan
Dear Lisa
As a regression therapist, this one is close to my heart.
A big thankyou,
Lana
I 100% believe this. I tend to make strong connections with people really fast, but find that after a pretty short amount of time something goes horribly wrong and we go our seperate ways. After all the analyzing I have done, I've realized that each of those relationships did serve a purpose. Unfortunately, it usually ends with a lot of pain and sadness...KARMA INCOMING! lol Gotta learn to accept that and move forward. That's the hardest part. Thank you for your blogs Lisa <3 xx
I suppose pacts or good "trans-life scratches" may be one side of the coin where other perhaps could range from renewed commitments to downright karmic debt. Maybe not only past sunshine stories. Then again enlightenment sometimes led one through dark(er) passages and trails. To one day onwards somewhere in in the Karmic wheel, release energy by itself positive enough to outshine even the darkest clouds.
The Great Spirit moves in (sometimes/most times) mysterious ways.
Namaste.
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Thank you for your openess here. I liked it ... it's funny. I know someone too who is straight who is with a woman, who believes and has been told they were connected in a past life. I myself have been with women and am now married to a guy. Due to pure connection and love. I love what your thoughts were and your friend.. it's something I really have been judged by but followed my heart and my inner truth. Thank you for sharing that. xo Still estatic I will see you in the Gold Coast.
Lisa, this is a beautiful blog.. Oh yes how many times have I thought that I had the impression to know somebody for so long when I actually met them for the first time !
I don't mind if my soul mate is not on the earth and if he is guiding me that's wonderful but then I'm just asking for a honest man to love me ;-)) it seems so diificult to find though ;-))
But indeed those magical connections are sometimes so amazing it's true...
Have a great day Lisa,
Love,
Lise
How true!
Your blogs always seem to hit home. Yes, we are all connected in some way. I feel that everyone that crosses our path is there for a reason. It goes back to Karma.. I feel that evryone that has come into my life was there for a reason. We have all been there, done that.
Even you my love, I feel a strong connection to. You have come into my life for a reason just as I have come into your life. I guess you could say that we are soulmates in this life . Who knows what we were to each other in a past life. Anyway, whenever someone new crosses my path eith for a while or a long time, I know that we were ment to be and were connected in another life.
My sweet one, do have the best time of your life on your tour on the other side of the world ,stay well and get all the rest you need. Give Kev and Charlie the biggest hug for me as well as Lucy and Max.
Off to work I go!! Hi ho, hi ho, hi ho!!
Love you lots,
Mary
Great Blog, Lisa!!! I totally agree with you!!! You love whom you love and you help those who need help!!! : ) What's meant to be, will be!!! Much Love <3 <3 <3
Dearest Lisa, your blog is so true.
I was away from the computer for a whole day and I missed you. So I know how much your family will miss you too. Have a good and safe trip. Take care and always be your happy self. :-)
Thank you, Lisa. I have a situation like this. I really love him and I really want to see him again. The problem is, I have so much that I am dealing with right now, job, money etc.... I'm not sure what to do with myself, in regard to it. I'm not sure if I should be done with him. I just love him so much and we never talk. He doesn't want to talk.Actually, I don't know if he even cares to be in contact with me ever!
Anyway,I really needed this post! Thanks and I love you!
M.R.
Dear Lisa,
Wonderful blog. What you say makes perfect sense. I have a few very treasured soulmates in my life. Besides the fact that the moment my hubby and I set eyes on each other 36 years ago and instantly fell in love, I have also been particularly blessed to have had a father who was like a soulmate to me (we were also both Libra, I don't know if that features in the equation). I loved him dearly and learned so much about life from him simply because I connected with him and listened to him like no other family member did. He seemed so wise and knowledgeable and balanced about everything. He wrote some beautiful poems the years leading up to his passing. There is such beauty, honesty and humour in them. It's wonderful to refer back to them and recognise my Dad in them. Then I have had another very important figure in my life. A woman who was my boss from when I was young, who gave me so much and was such a help in my maturing as an adult. I have kept every card, every letter and every reference that she ever gave me because she made me feel so proud of myself. At the end, before she passed, she wrote to me and openly told me about her illness and that she would rather I not see her because she wanted to be remembered as healthy. I wrote back to her telling her how much she has meant to me in my life and what a wonderful friend, boss and mentor she has been. I actually saw her in a dream once, not something that happens often to me. And curiously, I also feel that soul connection with my eldest grandson as does my husband. It takes no energy to communicate with him, he just understands where we come from. And then I have some wonderful long term friends as well. What a blessing to have such special people around me. Another long blog from me.... sorry!!!! Loads of hugs, Jeanette, Plettenberg Bay
Hey there Lisa,
Beautiful blog!!! Your blog left me a little paralyzed this morning... speechless. Not at all in a bad way...just a solid realization. Not sure if you realize it but some of your blogs like this one comes with a whirl of spiritual energy. It's all good. There are definitely reasons for all of our connections but the soul connection is quite a strong one that is hard to walk away from and forget. You are right, the connection really does not go away even if the person is not in your physical space or on the other side. If you take our bodies away, we are all souls with light energy.
Great blog!
Love~n~Light,
DS
Excellent post, Lisa...I was raised in a very religious family and was engaged three times to women in my early 20's. Each time, I just couldn't go through with it and I hurt three very special ladies because I was lying to myself and everyone else. Very beautiful blog! Thanks for sharing it!
I had been thinking of this for a while also... I totally agree, I believe we come into eachothers lives for a reason. There is that connection I feel toward some, but not many and I have been questioning it for a long time, though I do feel it to be the case that I must have a connection to them from before... What a bizaar feeling !!!!!
Great blog lisa. Again safe travels to you and Kev on your journey back home. Have a blast reminising with your friends and doing your shows.
Hugs to you
Atmos