Melissa - Dad is her for you and he wants to say hi. He is telling me he has been quiet recently and he knows that you and mom are fine. can you please remember to feed the cat. He keeps showing me that the cat hairs would get on his chest but he is stroking the cat anyway. Tell your brother I am proud of him too, it's not been easy and I am sorry for this. I am there with you and he keeps taking me to Wednesday I have no idea why but just know that I am with you, is what he is saying and that he is so very proud of you. Don't ever be afraid to tell things how they really are. I love you and happy birthday I know I always miss it but it's an early birthday wish! love you

Kathy/Cathy - Mom i'm sorry, you know what I am like! To me she is a very strong natured girl but sweet with a fun style and appearance. You know mom on the night I died it was really weird I kinda knew it was going to happen and I knew that I was facing something else but I didn't fear this. It didn't know why, we had gone out and I know you never knew what happened and here I want to let you know that I am ok. You don't have to worry I know you went to the police to get closure but it never came. I told you I would visit you, I always did. I wasn't a bad girl and I never meant to get into the problems that I did you and dad always bailed me out and i am sorry. I didn't take them on purpose I didn't, really. they were there and I thought well everyone else is doing it so why don't I, but I did too much and I know I shouldn't. My heart raced and it was time, and it was peaceful it really didn't hurt. I want you to know I am ok and I feel like I have made the connection with you and now I can't stop talking, I know you will read this I know it. Please mom I am there, and I know about the picture you have with me. I love you with all my heart and there was nothing you could do so stop having guilt it doesn't matter. Just know I am here and i love you... please mom, I love you and thank you for everything you did. I am ok now I am home and I will be waiting.

George - gruff voice, Hi how are ya? I wanna say hi to my daughter Mary, she's great woman but she's had some hard times in her life and I wanted to let her know that I am there for her. She's a sweetheart. He shows me cards and I think he smoked.... he just laughed and he said he always smoked and that you would know it's him because he smoked!Like I said I just want her to know that I am there for her and she is such a giving and caring woman that she deserves so much. Tell her I am working on it! Bye...

Arnold - I'm the dad of Peter. I want to congratulate him on the wedding. Tell him I will be there for him and I will make sure that he is on time (he thinks you always late) and he knows you intention with his personal item, he knows you will wear it. Tell your mom that she is going to look lovely too. Allow yourself to live a life that is long and happy... you know what I am talking about and your sister, can't forget her now can we... I love her kids and give them a big squeeze. Love you all and I will be there remember that!

Josie - It's Pat. I wanted to say hi while I had the chance. YOu know thank you for talking with me and staying with me and making sure that things were just right. I want you to know that I am fine, just fine. I was met by my mom who was lovely and charming, just the way I remember her. I was also greeted by my sister too. I am not alone and the funeral was lovely it was just how I planned or imagined it to be. The flowers were lovely (but I sense you are confused about this). I'm home, it's like I have gone home and I will be watching over you to stop you when you fall as I used to, ok, don't worry I am there for you! Love you xx