Self Belief

Well I have officially finished and completed, except for a story that I have to insert, the first Chapter of my new book. Yes I have many chapters that are part finished that need moulding and shaping but Chapter One is complete, and I am telling you, it's like a weight off my shoulders. 

To me, writing a book as a daunting task, I know I have my first book which is Life Among the Dead, but I had a ghost writer (no pun intended) and this one, I am writing all by myself! Which was a scary thought and something that I felt initially overwhelmed by. 

The book started to take shape, after so many people kept asking me, "So Lisa, what happens when we die" and so I decided that was going to be the topic of my book. Also watching my grandmother in her transition into the next life helped me and I hope it helps people come to terms with the fact that we all have to go and also to help people in the healing process. 

As I have said before I am amazed at what I discovered in working through this but this is not only a discovery of information that had been hidden from me by spirit, but it was as self discovery of me. 

This is for me about believing in myself and knowing that I CAN write this book and I AM an Author. Yes I may feel a little overwhelmed at times but I know I can keep my self from going under because I know I can do it. It's about self belief... 

You can do things that you put your mind to. If you set it straight in your head and work out a plan you can do it. Of course you have to think about it first, but when you set your mind to it, it will work no matter how long it takes you. 

There have been things that I have done that I never thought I would do, and I honestly thought, that I would have been 50- 51 when I accomplished them, but here I am in my 30's and I have done it... yes I surprised myself but I did it. And you can too. 

So set yourself a realistic task something that you know that you CAN achieve but you you still find it a task, and go for it. Look ahead and think positive and know that you will succeed!

Much love

Lisa xx

Getting back to normality!

Well I am officially Disney'd out! Yes tomorrow we leave Disney, and Charlie, Mike and Jonesy leave to head back to LA and I continue my travels preparing for the next few show dates in December in Florida and writing my new book, "Do you want to know everything?" 

I am so excited to be writing this but I have to get back into the 'zone' of writing... So I have my playlists prepared and my writing pad at the ready, I will be tuning in to the spirits that are around and I am staying away from the shops... Back to yoga, meditation and writing... Love it!

Mom is also preparing to come over for a month too tomorrow, she leaves Spain and then heads over and will be in LA on Monday, I can't wait to see her, but everyone else will get the pleasure of her company first... Oh Well and Dad is flying out a week later, so the family will be back together for the first time in 3 years at Christmas, I'm so excited all except for my brother.

Charlie can't wait to be home with Max and Lucy as they haven't been home for a month either what with all the travel so finally the family is getting back to normality... 

Sometimes it's great to travel and visit different places but there is also something nice about heading back to normality and chilling out... I love it. Being able to sleep in your own bed, walk the dogs, go to the local store, chat with the neighbours, take Charlie to school and cook in your kitchen (not that the last one happens very often). Getting back to normal is important for us all... it's like we all need it. We all crave it. But then there are those that want the opposite who just want to get out and leave, and have a change of scenery. 

Thats is perfectly ok also... but me I am looking forward to getting back to normal, and heading home. 

It's important to create a space that is right for you, even if it's a small space, a shelf, a place on the wall... wherever it is, you create it and have something on there to look at which is just for you! 

Have a wonderful day!

Lisa xx

Thank you!

Over in the USA its thanksgiving which is a national holiday and even though we don't celebrate it, being English it's always a day that I love. I can understand why so many people love it, and it's their favorite holiday. 

To me, it represents a day of honoring those who I love, new and old, near or far. 

I have been blessed with so many amazing people in my life, and some I don't speak to all the time and then there are those that I talk to all the time. There are those that I have long late night conversations with and then there are others that are the quick calls to say, "hey how are you and what are you up too"... there are others that I chat too all the time via email and there are others that I send silly jokes too, but one thing is for sure the people who I have in my life I value and respect and I love. 

What I have found is that over the years, you attract people who are like you, the same energy, the same vibe, the same values... we don't always blend with everyone and that is normal, and you are only human. It used to amaze me when I was much younger how not all my friends got on with each other, and that was because I was showing a very different side of me to different people. But now, I am me... what you see is what you get, and all my friends get on. 

In fact I have a group of friends who have become closer since I have been gone... but I always seem to fit back into that mix when I get back. 

You also have friends who are like family to you... Of course I have Charlie... but then I have Mike and Jonesy and then Janey and Isaac... and a few others and they are like my family who I love so much. 

So today while I was walking around the famous and fabulous Epcot Center in Disney World I was pondering on this. But then it made me look beyond this... not only to my friends and family who I love very much but then to everyone else who has supported me. 

I used to listen to artists, years ago, who used to say that they loved their fans, and question it... "well how can you love your fans when you don't know them personally?" was what I would say. And I never really understood it. However today standing in line for the Test Track Ride... I understood. 

I have many people who are fans of my work and of myself, and who have supported what I do, and then I have the extended family members on my site, and many people I have met personally after the shows that I do, and I can 'hand on heart' say, that I love every single one of you... because you have supported me, and my work through out everything and I honestly would not be here writing this today or openly saying I am a Medium, if it wasn't for you... 

So today I am giving thanks to everyone who has made an impact in my life, no matter how big or small, and yes that even means you if you are reading this...

But most of all, to my wonderful, beautiful, grown up little boy who I am so proud off, who has developed the strength and the courage to learn his own lessons in life and who has shown me the pathway to being a better person. (Oh and plus he has grammatically corrected half of this blog too!) 

Thank you to all of you. 

Much love

Lisa xx

Expectations!

Well it's been a time for family holiday for us and Charlie and I are at Disney and we are having a great time... Of course Charlie has now transformed into Indiana Jones and is ready to save the day... but it's great. Time for bonding and fun. 

However I wanted to go into the Hollywood Hotel, Tower of Terror and off I went and I must say I was worried, about it because everyone was going on and on about the ride and it being really really scary... however it depends on what your limits are... 

Whilst I laughed and enjoyed it and almost pee'd my pants about it, I found that my expectations were higher. 

It happens to us all... we have expectations only for them to be dashed and then we get disappointed with it. But thats not a problem really but we have to learn that it is something that we are putting too much emphasis on. 

I'm not saying I didn't enjoy it, but I have done much scarier rides than that but it's about expectations... 

I say the same to people who come to my shows, don't expect too much, come along, enjoy the evening and have fun... and that is the way to get the best out of a show. 

So don't expect too much but enjoy life and live life... because it really is worth living!

Hugs and love

Lisa xx

New Friends

Well as I have mentioned before it's been a whirlwind of change which is always good, but with that change have come new friends. I couldn't believe it that less than a month ago I was thrown into a situation with 2 people, 1 I had met briefly before and the other I had never laid eyes on. But for some reason I knew them. 

Then along came someone else added into the mix recently and it was like the 4 of us (3 of them had already been friend for years) were all thrown together for a reason. I think I know the reason, but its about growth for all of us. We are all at the beginning or endings of eras in our lives, and we were put together to help each other. Mine as we all know is a career pathway, and the more I think about it the more I get excited, but more to come on that in the next few weeks... (sorry to leave you hanging). 

But the girls (the 4 of us) have laughed and cried and supported each other like something I have never experienced before except with Janey and Jonesy. 

I sat with one of the girls yesterday and she said that when she met me she felt she knew me, and to be honest I couldn't remember ever meeting her... and that to me is when I know I have had a past life with someone else... it was like that with Janey and Jonesy... even though Jonesy will tell you some embarrassing stories about that first time!! but then again I'm sure Janey can too!!! ha ha ha

As I left the I Can Do It in Tampa today, I reflected back on the friends I have, who are very very dear, and the new friends I have made and I now know that there is always room in your life for new people. People who can help you change, people who can help you grow and people who can support you, and in turn you will do the same to them. 

So I would like to say thank you to my new friends who are incredible and I feel very complete to have them in my life, and for them to be part of the journey with me. 

Value who you have in your life, know that there is always room to bring new light in and help each other to grow. 

Much love

Lisa xx