Love our friends!

Finally I have done it... yes... it a very raw state, the book is completed!! YAY! I am so happy and for those who have read it, love it and they have enjoyed it, so for me that is amazing, I just need to edit it, and then get it off to the publisher. Which I am so happy about. 

Whoohoo. 

Well it's been a whirlwind and I want to thank everyone who has supported my writing including you, as I know I have had to take time off from blogging as I found that I would blog and then not be inspired to write as I was in a totally different mind set, and that is something that I couldn't really afford to do. So it was hard... what do I ease back on and since I write better at night, I am sure the creative juices flow better at night, I found that my book had to take the forefront for a while.

Well I had dinner with some friends tonight and this was a big step for me, as they are friends I would normally go out with as a couple, they are the most beautiful couple you could ever imagine and they certainly are soul mates. I actually had them and a few other people in mind when I wrote my chapter on soul mates for my book. 

So I went out and I was apprehensive about going out alone but also liberated and inspired and highly excited too to know that I felt secure in myself enough to not worry about going out alone. Of course it would have been nice to have a date with me but this was a step that I had to take and it was great. 

I realized that these people come in to my life at a time about 2 years ago to be people who would help us, but I didn't understand until tonight just how important they are now and how important they both will become in my life. They have always been there for me and Charlie but I also feel I can be there for them now too, in a very different way. 

I also have realized over the last few weeks that I may be 36 years old with a very silly and childish manner when I want and I like to have fun, but I prefer the company of older people and that I am on their same wavelength. Now that is not to say that I don't get on with younger people because I do, and my very good friend is a lot younger than me, but what I have discovered is that our soul of who we are is ageless, it's our body and it's how we act. 

Of course our lessons in life mould us to act in a certain way, and some people are more mature than others, but I feel that you attract those people who you want, desire, love and need in your life for various reasons. 

So I want to say thank you to all of you who have supported my book and also to those of my friends who are there for me through thick and thin. 

I love you all!

Much love

Lisa xx

Lets grow!

Finally I am home and back in bed, with a snuggly little boy who has missed his mommy and mommy has missed him!

It's been a whirlwind and I must say I have thoroughly enjoyed EVERY minute of it, including writing my book. I am 3 chapters away from finishing and I have been pounding the keys for days, and my fingers have ached but what a trip it's been, I have opened up so much and discovered about what happens when we die. You know you think you know something and then suddenly it opens up and you see it how it really is. 

WOW.. I can't wait to read the finished product even though I am writing it... is that strange?!?!

There are many times in life that we think that we know everything about a topic or a job and then suddenly someone or something comes in and BAM blows your theory out of the window. Now I do want to make it clear that I have never said I know it all about the afterlife, because I don't but I thought I knew a lot about it,... clearly not... however I DO now!!! haha

Life is about learning and growth and we have to accept that there are so many people that we can learn from, and you know it's normally who you least expect. I often learn from Charlie. Although he is 9 he sees things in a childs way and that is great because he is pure and honest, and tells it how it in. THere is no judgement clouding his opinions either and it's from the heart. I love it, and he often makes me sit back and think... huh... where did that come from. 

So you have to continue to learn and grow because life would also be so boring if you didn't, I know as new experiences come in you grow and you see things differently and it's part of the new changes and pathways that we have to create. But you also have to believe in yourself to know that you can make that change and grow. 

So remember never stop learning and growing and also remember there is always someone out there who knows more than you!

Big loves 

Lisa xx